Sadly, I feel that humanity is becoming tossed in the trash along with all of the political back and forth that is dividing men and women and in many of the relationships that I observe. Historically, relationships have not been about connecting with one another or building communities. It has become a competition between men and women. It’s been a battle between telling the truth and lying. The issue has been one of honesty. We tend to forget that everyone of us identifies as a distinct gender despite the fact that we all share these human bodies. Nevertheless, regardless of the body or how one identifies their gender, we are all people. …and it is essential for us to keep this in mind and come back to it. The following are the three most important arguments I want to make on how we may improve the existing atmosphere, better understand men, and better understand women. This is my viewpoint, and these are the questions that I have about our presence with one another. What would happen if people stopped attempting to repair or place blame on the other person and instead accepted responsibility for what they contribute to a relationship and what they don’t provide, rather than trying to fix or blame the other person? Our experiences as adults, together with the upbringing, values, and ideas that we carried with us from our adolescence, are the source of much of the uncertainty and blame that we feel. The majority of the time, the groundwork was laid for us far before we even became 10 years old! It comes down to redefining what we mean when we say “responsibility.” What if, rather, it is understood to refer to our capacity for reaction? This was shared with me by one of my most revered spiritual gurus. The capacity to respond effectively, on the other hand, is synonymous with freedom. When you first become aware of the fact that you are accountable for something, and only then, do you have the ability to construct yourself, not as a reaction, but as a response to something. It is possible for men to learn to bring our hearts, and they must. We have them, they run deep, and they’ve been hurt, which is why the majority of guys are conditioned to keep that part of themselves buried. What if we discovered a way to bring our hearts more fully into the present and into our relationships not just with our loved ones, but with everyone else as well? Women need to have greater agency and have it respected when they set limits for themselves; they should be allowed to say “no” and have that response taken seriously. In order to understand men and women, we need to look within as well as outside for answers, and we need to collaborate in order to bring about changes that will help them become more resilient. The concepts of patriarchy and matriarchy have long been the subject of a great deal of discussion. In the end, both men and women struggle with the same problems. Both men and women tell fibs. Instead of focusing on the differences between us, we should be concentrating on improving mankind. What if, rather of attempting to set up a hierarchy, we conducted experiments aimed at progressing toward a more united, energetic, and cognitive field? putting our attention on the reality that we are all in this together and that we are dependent on one another. Imagine all of the potential outcomes if we were to mix the masculine and feminine energies. Couples should focus more on active listening to one another. this is part of an investigation, and in the next days and weeks, I want to discuss and write a lot more on this subject. I am quite interested in hearing your thoughts on this matter. In the comments section below, please share your thoughts and personal experiences.
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